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Great that you got this guy to come to substack.

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THANK YOU for talking about the stuff that men do that isn't legally rape but "feels like" rape. I had a situation with that in 2013 that made me stop dating entirely for years-- in my mid-20s to early 30s. PLEASE make this a "thing" for men to talk about this. You're giving me hope for humanity.

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Took a while to listen to, but packed with interesting tidbits throughout. Good lord I identify with the speaking too fast for some people and having problems slowing down!

Liked the Portugal shout out, the extensive application of Big 5 terminology, persuasion vs manipulation, and the challenges of asking people for help with lower IQ than you.

And you do have a point about people posting in the comments without creating their own content LOL. It inspired two hours of manic brainstorming, ideas for more than 20 posts, and exploring some AI image generation concept art attempts. Maybe I'll try and make "mirror centrism" some kind of ideological project.

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And just for the record, me saying that you're doing the right thing is kind of a huge deal as far as reaching left-wing women-- in summer 2018, I hosted a party where Antifa types were literally burning American flags in the backyard of the house I shared with 7 other anarchists. But guess who ruined love and sex for me in the 2010s? Left wing men LOL.

I'm only "right wing" because I'm against the lockdowns (I was Queen of the Woke in 2019), but I find that the top 1% of the smart, classy, sophisticated Libertarian right wingers are my favorite people in a lot of ways now. You can absolutely undermine the trashy part of the left just by treating women better than they even realize is possible.

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